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Originally Posted by acrosstheborderline
I feel like Im going forward and getting over my traumatic experince of emotional abuse then , I get some reminder and cant control my emotions all over the same issue again . I had a sister in law who contributed my torment asking me to be friends on a social site . I went back remembering painful memories again . My x husband who also contribute to my torment of abuse too , told me its fouryears ago to build a bridge and get over it . Does anyone els have this comment thrown at them when they keep having painful memories of the past . ?  |
My family won't even put up with me being upset over crap that is happening now! One said to me not long ago, "Don't dwell on it"...Dwell on it????? IT is happening now! I simply am not allowed to be irritated by abuse, meanness, lies, theft by my family and no matter what horrid thing one does, they all gang up and side against me. I know, I sound paranoid!
But this has been their game for 25 years and they're not letting go of it.