In my case the "job was accomplished." It was a business situation.......when it was over, I stayed with my t because I fell in love with him. THose feelings have not changed in 7 years. He knows all about it. I told him that I would rather be in pain WITH him (than in pain) without him.

That is the scary thing about LIFE.....if we are vuleranable we can be hurt.

If we are closed off, we miss a lot.

I have chosen to be open and vuleranable.....as a "Highly Sensitive" person (we make up only 20% of the population, I have read), it is terribly difficult...to live in a world which is basically. NOT.....sensitive.