Thank you for your advice. He's in hospital at the moment seems to be getting back to the him I know. I have tried to reassure him that I'm still here for him and am only interested in him. He's been a lot more kind this time, the last time he was in hospital I left crying a lot of the time but he's being a lot nicer this time. I also wonder if he has DID at times as he seems to have a lot of traits but if the Dr's haven't suggested that I'm not going to assist them in giving him another label.

It's hard as a partner to really understand what's going on with him. I have anxiety which also causes me to worry even more about things. What are your reasons for joining if you don't mind me asking?