Oh My! Too many times to count, I would get so angry when my x used to say that, it totally made me feel like my feelings did not mean a thing. I am still trying to figure out how to deal with it. I feel like maybe I am to emotional, but I can't help it. I wish you well and glad this place is around so we don't have to feel so alone. Sorry I don't have any advice for you, just know there are others that feel the same.