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Originally Posted by Spiderlegs
My family won't even put up with me being upset over crap that is happening now! One said to me not long ago, "Don't dwell on it"...Dwell on it????? IT is happening now! I simply am not allowed to be irritated by abuse, meanness, lies, theft by my family and no matter what horrid thing one does, they all gang up and side against me. I know, I sound paranoid!
But this has been their game for 25 years and they're not letting go of it.
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Exactly the same for me...
and it's the main abusers that are telling me to get over it, it doesn't matter, it's in the past, stop dwelling, just forget it...etc etc.