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May 02, 2012, 06:19 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hey my good friend -- You're not sitting there and LETTING her get away with saying all that are you???? STAND UP for yourself, for heavens sakes!!! If she's lying, make SURE the therapist knows it!! Don't just sit there and take it! You won't get the help you need, if she's telling stories!  OR -- That might be the way your wife SEES it, but sometimes it couldn't be further from the truth!!! Her 'memory' might be a little skewed.
Makes sure the therapist knows YOUR side too! Nothing will get settled if you don't say what's on YOUR mind too. Otherwise you'll just seethe with resentment for the rest of your life -- and the two of you won't really come to a meeting of the minds. You both have to be on the same page, so to speak, in order to get along. Tell the therapist what you've told us. Don't get walked on, ok?
I'm glad you posted. It's good for you to get it out. Keep posting. We'll be here. I'm still praying!  God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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