I already wrote the same here at ask-the-therapist but since I couldn't find my question and thus a way to track if it's been answered... I thought I'd ask people at the forum...
So here is my story...
Me and my wife have been married for 3 months only and before that we dated for 3 years and been friends since 14 years old. So we married. She wants to have kids (I do as well, but I'm not that obsessed with it) We've been trying even before our wedding but have no results and she won't do any tests herself or allow me do so to find out the reason of her not getting pregnant. So... Month ago my mother(42 y.o.) became pregnant. And my wife hates her ever since (obviously because my mother will have a child wile my wife will not(at least she thinks so)) So my wife told me not to talk to my mother anymore and after I've done that things looked ok, but then my mother called me and asked to borrow some money (20 dollars to be precise) and after I gave the money to her(without my wife knowing and made it so that she believed I spent it on some other stuff(after which she shouted at me for wasting money)) my wife asked me if I gave the money. I told her I did because at that moment it was obvious. After shouting at me for about 5 minutes she stopped talking to me. She cooks, does the house work, but just ignores me. If I ask her something shewon't answer or just nod or shake her head. But... When our friend(the one who introduced us to each other) comes to us she starts talking (though keeping the conversation with me to minimum) So here I am with my wife not talking to me for 5 days already and without any chance of visiting my mother(who is mad at my wife for such isolation) at the hospital where she waits for the birth of my brother...
(few extra details to add to the picture - I've never cheated on her and I'm the main source of money in the newly found family but I rarely do house work, she cheated me twice just after we started dating, finishing her education at the university and is overall depressive. And she broke up with me several times wile we were dating, but I always brought her back. And we were neighbors before we married if it matters...) Now I think that's all...
Hope to find an answer to my situation somewhere...