No, I don't. I just courtesy. You should not have to sit around waiting for your wife to walk in the door so that you can carry on with things. It doesn't sound like she is being very respectful of your or your daughters time. Your time is just as important as hers.

Is she chronically late to other things as well? I read alot of articles on chronic lateness to try to understand my bf better. Although he doesn't share the same problems as your wife. He is just late a lot, but he will still text or call.

I'm really sorry because I think that's pretty rude behavior to put up with. I am sure it makes you feel insignificant. You aren't tho, and you have a right to be upset about this. I'm not sure what solutions are besides talking to her and letting her know just how much it bothers you and your daughter. That your time is just as valuable. Maybe when she doesn't return near when she says, just carry on and do make your own plans, instead of just waiting foe her to show. Maybe she'll get the picture. But that's not a real solution either long term. I hope she will change this. Hope you get some better answers.