Mr. Venomous,

Does academic success measure the intelligence of a person?

Absolutely not. See below for further explanation.

Can I be smart and not do well in university?

Of course one can be smart and not do well in university. The grading system is set up for average people who do not have challenges with social relationships, executive functioning, learning disabilities, ASDs, psychiatric illness etc... It is mostly based on time management and effective study skills. Abstract thinking, application and memory are also considered but to a much lesser degree. So, anybody with average intelligence is capable of A+ grades as long as they have it together.

The education system is meant to socialize us. Anybody who is different will struggle. At least that has been my experience. I found school pointless and boring. My marks in high school hovered around 65 to 70, well below my capabilities. The social aspect was unbearable and I quit because of it. People bullied me severely because I was different. Experiences like this can have a negative impact on academic performance.

I am surprised at the lack of disability support. The university I attend in Ontario has a great Asperger support program. Academic accommodations, social support and counseling are provided.

PS. You are such an eloquent writer.