When i started looking for a T i visited two or three. The one i finally chose was the only one who asked me what i thought. i was not sure if i thought at all, but she was the only one interested in what i thought, if we could work together.
Can you say to this T you do not think she wants to work with you? If she asks why you think that, you can tell her you think she is not interested because she constantly looks at the clock.
When you find the right T something inside should feel comforted...kind of like a slipper. While you maybe scared and depressed and struggling to talk, the right T for you will feel comfortable...maybe scared too because that T is really listening to you and might really see YOU.
The T you are seeing now seems to be doing things to push you away. If you cannot address this with this T then perhaps you might look for another T.
Those are just my thoughts on the subject. i wish you the very best.
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