I know it's a symptom of his bpd and he's struggling since his councillor went on maternity leave. But how can he go from being nasty and hateful to wanting and expecting me to be intimate and then he can act like nothing has happened. How can he do it ? How ? It's one of the most difficult parts of being in a relationship with a bpd my suitcases were packed and in the car, but i wasn't in any kind of state to drive. So i'm here for another night, i want to go to bed but i'm wary to ask where i'm expected to sleep