Hello Gunalli, sounds like a really unfair position to put you in. I'm presuming that you have had a fairly good relationship with your Mother until your wife demanded that you stop speaking to her. Not sure how your wife has that much control of you that she can stop you speaking to your Mother and she controls how you spend your money! You are your own person and need to have freedom. You have a baby brother on the way, that is such an exciting time and you are needed by your Mum and your new brother needs to know you. How would your brother feel in years to come if he knew that you were stopped from seeing him because of your wife? I suggest that you do what is right for you, do you really want to be controlled like this by another person?

You have a lot to think about. Is this marriage what you want? If you want to continue I think you need to get therapy for yourself so that you can raise your self esteem. Or maybe go to couples counseling if you feel you want to continue the marriage and talk! Communication leads to a healthy relationship. Maybe you could also suggest she goes (and you) and has some tests as to why she cannot get pregnant but do you really want a child with someone that tries to control you like this? I know it's very hard to make life changing decisions when you have been with someone for a long time.

I do wish you the best.