I'm twenty, and I've never been on a date.

I think that bipolar (and the self-confidence issues that come with depression) have played a small role in this, but I have noticed that most of you are in relationships. So I guess that it is possible to find love while struggling with bipolar disorder.
I'm curious- how did you all meet your partners? Did you start dating before or after your bipolar diagnosis? I'd just like a little encouragement in this area of my life right now; thanks.