well, illegal for the staff maybe, not for you. and anyway I doubt it. you know, money talks, b.s. walks. you caught him snoozing, that's all. hey, we have HAD to take care of ourselves, no one else ever did. excuse us for not being miss prim and proper when we're anxious! who does he think he's dealing with? you're not talking about a vacation! well, HIS finding out about it thru facebook, even indirectly, now has put him in an uncomfortable situation. He'll deal with it. please don't stress too much about it. drs should not be the cause of our troubles. altho they did invent a word jUst for that.