Oh wow. Which one? Wife 1 I met thru my mother, pre-dx. Wife 2 I met at a club. She was 18 and snuck in there with a fake ID. I was smitten. We'd been together about six months when I had a breakdown that caused me to get diagnosed. She dealt with it for a while and we had 2 kids, but eventually, things fell apart. Wife 3 I met at work. She worked in the same building but not the same floor. I actually chased her all the way from the elevator to her office to ask her out. I didn't tell her about my dx at first but when I did, she was pretty understanding. I guess it helps that her mom is also BP.

I wouldn't be in too big of a hurry. I got married for the 1st time when I was 20 and it was a huge mistake. Remember the old song. You can't hurry love. Just take your time and enjoy being single. You'll find someone compatible with you one day.