I want to change a few things I said since I read what more you are saying.
If your husband can't change, detach from him too. Again, I would use Alanon to get tools as to how to deal with the fact you have a child who will be part of their family.
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Originally Posted by acrosstheborderline
I want to forgive these people and forget about them , Im stuck with them because of my little boy , they are his grandparents .. And they have been really nice grandparents to him .. and thats the only thing I respect them for... My husband relises now he did the wrong think keeping me there . He also has taken on his father abusive side , Im so glad I got out of this marriage . thank for your lovely caring message means alot , take care
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