I understand that we are totally different, its my aspd, that lacks empathy, sympathy, but I do feel excited and obessesive over men, but its usually the cold in me that drives them to go away, then stalk me for years, they remember how vivasios I am and how confident i am, they again rember the good things and stalk me litterally, I find it amusing that someone can change theri mind so quickly, I am what I am because of many years of emtional, physical, sexual abuse, so that where the aspd comes, in....but Ive been incoucleing for years, and have found more happiness and continmemt in my life. I dont view you as weak summeryoga, but Ive found in my posistion, I just have feeling, and usually feeling lie to you, i go by knowledge, my feelign hasve been gone since i was a child, soooo maybe i could be more aspd,. but until that diagnones I will continue to most here...you guys are cool