Do you have a tendency to not trust what you get from people and have to do some digging on your own to get what you need? It's important for you and T to talk through this because it could have the potential to shine some light on a tendency that you have - OR, prove to be more about T and not you at all. Or a mixture of both.

I hope that you can try to be curious about it, as it will provide information that could be valuable....but I know that's easier said than done when emotions are involved.