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Originally Posted by precious things
I wasn't trying to keep it a mystery per se, it's just there is a lot of shame attahached to the fact that it was a female.....  |
Thus the reason you really need to share this with your T. Otherwise, you will just be skirting around a major issue for you and that just will slow down the process. Anyway, at some point he probably will clue in to the gender thing and it will be pretty obvious at that point. Cut to the chase. It will be excruciating once, but after that you won't have to keep bearing that burden by yourself.