((((desirae)))))) pot as I have seen is just a substitute for the alcohol...They both do the same thing to you.. They make you feel better, they loosen your inhibitions, etc.. the only reason pot will become legal is for medical purposes, never to be used recreatonally.. I see this happening with my SIL and his not having pot is just as bad as his not having the alcohol... Just say no as they say. Stay straight and I mean keep your head to your head not moved on by something pills, alcohol, or pot or anything else... I wish I could say more to you. I haven't had a chance to really meet you yet, but you sound level headed to me,,, stay that way and your life will be better than you can imagine. Linda