Questions does marriage counseling really work? I get that it brings out things you can't tell your partner !!!!! partner or other but I might be wrong again as well but if your other was true and loving an honest why wouldn't you tell them if they truly was doing something that really pissed you off or made you feel unhappy. Is it that I am honest and she isn't or is it there's more??? My thoughts are terrible to day, I always think the worst case possible.Why would a person hold anything back if they truly loved the other person in the 1 st place that puzzles me why why why. Ok I got another curve ball going on wow !! ok is like this now I get some tiny some tiny bit of acknowledgement of good feelings from my wife at minimal times like she has forgotten she was totally pissed off at me ,I am like hmmmmmmmmm what I say to myself and then like few eye blinks bam she back to cold attitude like she hates the site of me wtf I SAYYYYY,OK I LOOSING IT ok not to sound stupid but I today took a shower after work like I always do she enters the room not sexual and takes a shower with me like nothing is wrong hmmm I say wow really I mean I say to myself that lord not out loud I was lost for words now is this a game I get to play now or what. My feeling and thoughts are crazy so I say to my self do not say a word lol not a word. Now I guess she must have memory lose at moments and forgets, I thinking ok she is on many many different meds for her depression and high blood pressure pills so I am thinking her meds might be affecting her mind or something is that possible I been going through heck for along time you all think that might be my hole problem her medicines??? Just a thought crazy crazy