I'm also engaged and about to get married, so I totally understand the stress of a wedding... But I was wondering, when exactly did the fighting start? Do you have any other stressors going on in your life? Getting married is definitely in the top ten of life stressors. When is your wedding, and how long have you been engaged? I agree with everyone that couples counseling would not be a bad idea. The one thing that really stood out to me in your post was that you said the reason you couldn't break up with him was because you were about to get married. If that is truly your reason for staying together, then I highly recommend postponing the wedding, if not calling it off all together.