I'm really sorry to hear about your situation (yours too iamdetermined). It's not good at all. It must be painful to feel that your experiences are being undermined by people who were initially supporting you. I imagine that it must feel very disillusioning/invalidating. Who's helping you btw, friends? Mutual acquaintances will often take one side over another. If it was a therapist (or other professional) I would say that they should be referring you on to someone else because there is now a conflict of interest - it's unethical to carry on that relationship. If you feel there is a problem... well, there is a problem! No-one should diminish that. Big hugs xx