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Old May 04, 2012, 11:13 AM
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Thanks for your feedback. She is actually embarrassed about having "buds" (I think that's the right term). I think she'd rather be flat chested like her sister. She is very conservative. She doesn't like 2 pieces (swimming suits) they make her uncomfortable. Both girls will come out of their room, lifted their arms up & say "I can see my tummy. I need a tank top" and head back to their room to either put on a tank top or a different shirt. With skirts, they'll be like this skirt has shorts built into it or can you get me a pair of shorts to wear under this skirt or I need leggings. We've tried hard to instill in them that girls at their age don't need to be showing a lot of skin. They'll even say to me "mom, I can see your tummy you need a tank top to wear under it or a different shirt" (so cute)