were still away and over the last couple of days it's been us trying to work at things and or me in tears being told i'm a selfish ***** etc. Today we've managed to go most of the day being ok with each other, then he went for a lay down. He started sending 'naughty texts' i replied playfully but making it clear i'm not really in a intimate place yet. He then sent me a text saying it ok if i'm not up for it. I'd killed the moment . Killed the moment now i feel guilty