Some people cannot face other's pain or mental health issues- so they trivialize it or maginalize it. Your husband is either unwilling or unable to give you any sympathy- and that is just how he is- so find another more suitable person ( or Dr or Counselor)
to talk to. I find journaling helps a lot- I don't think people really mean to be brutal in their comments- they don't understand I think. Best wishes to you!