I don't know, I wouldn't read too much into it. Sometimes people just use different words but really don't mean much by them or mean the same thing with different words.

Or here's an example. Last year my boss had a baby shower because she was having a baby. It was a work baby shower. The lady that set it up sent out this e-mail that was all done up in pink and had pictures of babies in it, etc. Big font, pretty. etc. Then about two months later another co-workers wife was having a baby and the same thing for the work baby shower, beautiful e-mail out with pink letters and cute pics, etc.

Then I was having my baby, due in January. And no one was saying anything about a baby shower. I was having a boy. Then in late November it comes up they are trying to find the date for my baby shower. Well, the e-mail comes out it is just a line of text: X's baby shower will be this day at noon. No pretty font, no big blue letters, no pictures of babies or cuteness... Just plain old Arial 10 point font, black. LOL...

So I just rolled my eyes. But I got a good turn out and had a good shower and so what? The people who cared at about me and my baby came and had a blast. I just ignore the rest.