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May 04, 2012, 03:56 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I would CERTAINLY bring up the issue of your wife getting into the shower with you and the fact that she's sending all the messages that you don't understand. Tell the counselor that you're just not SURE if the wife really WANTS to work on the marriage or NOT !!! Say this in FRONT of the wife, and see what she has to say!! When she plays this "hot & cold" thing with you, you can't help but wonder!  Anyone would.
I don't think it's the medication that makes her act like this either. She either has some mental hangup, which I would have thought you would have noticed all thru the years, or she's playing some game. I wouldn't think it would have just "cropped up" all of a sudden, but I'm no doctor either. LOL
I really feel for you, my friend. You've been trying so hard. I know this must be driving you nuts.  But don't give up. Keep trying until there's just no hope anymore. And I don't think that will happen.  Keep us posted, ok? We'll be here. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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