WOW THANKS EVERYONE FOR THE SUPPORT Well 2 day I went to left field fishing,I invited my wife to dinner alone 1st time in almost 2 months, alone together with out children was peaceful and very nice enjoyed dinner.Towards the end I opened up a little about were we are in are relationship as well as are goals we would like to meet and of course how did we get to were we are now.I never actually listen to her feelings she stressed to me comely,we never had any out of place questions to anger each other, tonight she was very nice I needed that so far nights still early will update tomorrow thanks again all.