Great responses you are getting; LostinDC has a nice situation and good advice. I am a woman, bi, with a PhD. I love being humiliated in fantasy, and my H fantasies usually are centered around being shown I am just an animal. In my fantasies, I may be treated like an animal, or even taken by an animal. I also have a bit of RL experience here--not with animals--but with my first husband offering his brother a "turn"--I still cherish this memory as the humiliation was thoroughly carried out--kind of assembly-line with my husband giving his brother advice about what I liked and how to know when I was about to come. Is this shocking? Anyone knowing my RL reputation would think so!