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Originally Posted by granite1
i also feel like all those feelings i had were just wrong,and scary because in real life i don't think it would be OK to feel them .
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Why?
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Originally Posted by granite1
like feeling so comforted by my T(i should be able to comfort myself)i wouldn't want her to think i need her to comfort me even if i want it because it isn't OK at all.
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Why?
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i know it isn't her job and i believe it would freak her out.
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T's can comfort their clients. Why do you feel that it is wrong?
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Originally Posted by granite1
i don't want her to change our relationship because she is scared that i want to cross all kinds of boundaries.
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How do you know that she is afraid of this?
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