a year and a half ago I wanted to "break up" with one of my T's because it just didnt seem to help, he would talk about things in metaphors and weird analogies that I just did not get. So, I called the office and told them I was wondering if I could try having a different T there, and they said I needed to have 1 more session with my T to talk about any possibility of working things out. That was the most awkward T session I've ever had!! But instead of him asking if things could be worked out, he flat out said (something like) "If you want to see a new T then I guess it's nice knowing you. But let me tell you, I'm the only one here with a PhD, so I am most qualified. But if you want to try seeing someone else, then goodbye."