Hi collegefriend, and welcome. Yeah, all of us would like to have a friend like you. I agree--- don't push yourself beyond your limits, he will need you to take care of yourself so you can help when you wish to.

You will find many ppl here that understand both sides of the situation like this... come back and post often. good wishes.

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