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Originally Posted by precious things
HERE IS MY CONCERN: when I gave details, I left it (very much on purpose) gender neutral as to who the assaulter in this particular incident was. I never said he or she I only referred to it as "this person".
The next time we met, he brought up what I had talked about and went ahead assigned a gender to the assaulter, ---and he is wrong.
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It is very difficult to talk about someone in gender-neutral tones.
It is also very difficult not to guess someone's gender. (For many weeks I thought Stopdog was a man.)
I'm sure it was all unconscious on T's part.
You could call him on this: "I never said if it was a man or a woman. Please don't guess."
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