Then there's the other extreme. My husband would make me so mad, I would completely blow up. I remember right before I finally left him, I blew up & I really understood that saying "being so angry you see RED". It was a horrible feeling & since I left him & moved 2100 miles away, I no longer feel that level of anger & I no longer see red even when I get a little mad at something. I was never one who could hold anything in even with my parents