To history: I do not know if my ex-husband had a cuckold desire. He was bisexual and kind of wanted his brother; I think it had more to do with that. To Lostin: one of my best friends is/was in the BDSM community around our isolated area. She is also a witch and she eventually got out of the community because she said it was interfering with her spiritual energy. She was also a professional dominatrix--got out of that, too.