You know what. All that hype in those magazines are absolute bologna. I met my boyfriend on eHarmony because you know what I said to myself this bar scene and club scene is not the way to go and I approached it logically. It was the best choice for me at the time because they have an in-depth questionnaire so that you know you're serious to find someone, unlike these dating sites where you just throw a picture up with a few words.

I know you didn't post this to get online dating advice, but my point for mentioning that is because these magazines and tv shows gear women to have this "image" of something beautiful. Those magazines don't show what women really look like, they are just a fantasy. And another thing, what's the rush with the marriage? Who says you have to be married for things to be perfect? Where is that written.

My goal: get married when I'm 65 and I retire and I'm done living my life to the fullest and I just want to grow old with my partner after that. I'm completely serious too and my boyfriend knows this. No kids either. Just me and him.

Good luck to you. We make the rules. Not those magazines and tv.