Welcome to the world of T's! Yes, some T's can be quite...aggressive. This is the sense I get from your interpretation of her, anyways.

As much as you may dislike her and her methods now, I believe this will be the most beneficial T that you could ever get. You will probably get farther in treatment with her than the T's who are into coddling their clients.

I had a T just like yours. Hated her in the beginning but after a few years I loved her and still do. You know what I regret? Moving away from her and not being able to receive treatment from her! She is known as "The Badger" among other names. You get the drift. The T that will push and push you and be straightforward with you and very blunt and seemingly harsh is the one that will help you the most. Just my opinion.

Give this one a chance no matter how frustrated or hurt you get by her. She's your ticket to recovery!