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Originally Posted by fishsandwich
That I never have to have sex again unless I want to? Obviously it's untrue, rape does happen. I never wanted to have sex in the first place, yet it still happened. I told him I'd rather find a way to cope with the idea that rapes do happen, than just delude myself into thinking that they don't. He didn't get it.
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I'm sorry but that sound like a basic self preserving way of coping with life, a thing that I do but even If I didn't I can imagine why someone would prefer to not have expectations and be positively surprised by life, than to expect good and receive only bad news. That is one reason I have no dreams and hopes I think. He other one i my inability o do anything about them. Anyway if you have to work with that person it seems like it's gonna be difficult but not impossible. U just have to communicate well and come to a decision that you know is good for you. I'm sure if he doesn't understand something he can consult himself with his colleagues in order to find a proper treatment for u. If he doesn't I hope u find a way to help yourself.
