Thanks myself

I did wind up telling her that I didn't want to be there so we had a nice discussion about anxiety (I have major test anxiety, and as it turns out moderate-high levels of unsubstantiated anxiety as well)

I guess I know what to expect now. And I'll try to be a little bit less sarcastic too!

Thanks Lexicon

I don't know how to explain my first counsellor. She wasn't one to "coddle" but she did seem nicer to talk to. I know I need a good swift kick once in a while, so hopefully she'll be "useful".

Thanks shrinkjamie

It probably is a personality characteristic. I don't mind it much, just a bit of a shock to be with someone with such a personality. I guess I'll give it a while longer and then re-evaluate if things are working or not. Also, I just noticed that I forgot to mention her work during the last session on my (profoundly negative) thought patterns. So does that fit?

You all are wonderful and thanks for the responses.