She sounds very comprehensive and well im a child of a mother and ive always been comprehensive with her and at the date i love her so much with her many defects and i know she loves me sometimes its hard for me to understand but she is always there for me, i think you should be easy on your self as if you aree ok then your daugther will too she loves you and you love her and well mistakes are always present but with the confidense you with to each other you can do it