I signed up for three months for eHarmony before I found anyone. I also had no matches when I signed up either. They trickle in as time goes by. You get new matches every day. That doesn't mean it will work for everyone but things take time and patience.

I was ready to terminate my membership when he found me, and when we matched and were communicating by e-mail I was getting impatient and wanted to start chatting right away. Well come to find out, he works in computers and coming home and chatting on the computer is the LAST thing he wanted to do since he stares at a computer screen all day long. So feeling defeated, I gave up and said "forget it, I don't want to inconvenience you" and ended my communication with him by never answering his last email. A month later, he contacted me and told me he installed the chat program for me because he wanted to talk with me and get to know me. SO... THAT MEANS.....my negative behavior almost cost me a relationship with a very wonderful and kind man that is going very well (almost 2 years) and I am enjoying every minute of!

You never know....unless you persist and try.....