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Originally Posted by TerryL
Hi Rose, I can relate. I don't like being lonesome either but I know I can do something about that. It's harder for you as you have been battling health problems on top of depression. like you, I also worry about who will take care of me if I were to get sick. I have sibs too but I can't see them taking care of me either... If it is any consolation, there are many others out there that feel like we do..ironically, we are not alone.  |
Yes, I know, not having anyone close around to take care of you when you become sick is tricky. I am also aware of that and, as an avoidant personality with no partner, child(ren) and also no siblings, it's a bit tricky to change that. I'm trying to do my best to have a kind of friends' / social network, which I have managed to establish (my avoidance is more of intimate relationships these days) and I had some of them help me out (eg. with shopping etc) when I had surgery early last year and couldn't do much, which I appreciated more than I can say.
Are there any opportunities for you, TerryL and Rose, to enlarge your social circle even if it is initially difficult? Coffee meet-ups or a book club or something where the atmosphere is relaxed and welcoming?
I wish you both well!
