That's another great thing to do Soliir, I do voluntary work for a charity and the skills I have learned/people I have met not to mention the good feeling from knowing I am making a difference have all been a huge plus.

When you have low self-esteem sometimes it's really hard to make that first step, but in my experience it's very rewarding. Not sure if you are still following this thread Purple Mist, or if you still feel as low as you did when you posted, but I hope the shared experiences will help you.