I think 3 to 4 months is kind of soon to become exclusive. It takes me that long to know if I want to just be friends with someone. I know people often sleep together before that point, but that doesn't mean the r/s is deep, it just means you've rushed parts of it. Two wrongs don't make a right. You're both still clearly uncomfortable with who the other is, as a person. Take it slower next time?
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