I think Angel needs therapy on her own - sounds like she has daddy issues, or sibling rivalry issues, that she is bringing to this relationship. I wouldn't rush into anything - ie marriage - at this point. Maybe you need to date around a little more? Get rid of this idea of an "ideal" woman, and have a r/s with a real person, and learn to be a real person yourself (my 1st husband was an engineer, please don't mind my teasing you!).