I know you said they are questions to ask myself but ... My gut tells me Tommy's a good guy. He isn't pushing to meet soon, and I believe he'll go slow. But my gut told me the other guy was a good guy and I believed him.

One thing Tommy has going for him is that another mutual friend, Amanda, thinks he's a good guy. And I think Amanda has good judgement. Amanda's been through alot, knows both guys, knows everything that happened, and didn't like the first guy.