We are getting alone OK but seems I have to initiated everything that happens before it happens,doesn't seem right to me feels like is only happening to make me feel better not her does that sound stupid. Like I am by myself ,she don't start anything ,for her self should I lay back an wait or be the aggressor,before all these problems ,was like we both was the aggressor together,might be just me being impatient just isn't right yet.Patience I not very good at.One bad thing are meetings are 3 weeks apart for are marriage counseling that really sucks can't believe we have to wait that long to go.We have very good talks between each other know, I feel she acts alot better when I just set and listen I don't know is all new and strange to me.Wow seems like a circus all the time anymore.