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May 08, 2012, 04:53 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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When you say you have to "start everything" do you mean you have to start all the conversations that you have?? Doesn't she start any of them? What do you mean by you have to be the "aggressor?" NO one should be very aggressive right now. LOL Things are too unstable to be very aggressive -- a fight could start over a piece of lint! LOL Just try to be very calm & cool for now, and take one day at a time. 3 weeks does seem like a long time between counseling sessions -- I wonder why he wants you to wait so long.  I suppose he just wants you to put his suggestions into play before you see him again, and see how they work. I hope you two ARE using his suggestions (if he's given you any)!!
I know that kids can make the home seem like a circus. Try to keep things as calm as you can around the house. It's surely a challenge! LOL But if the kids get too rambunctious, send them outside! LOL Take care my friend & keep us posted. I'm glad you're posting! Hugs, Lee
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