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May 08, 2012, 05:03 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I definitely agree with the other posters!!! My gosh, they're deflating you before you even have any air in you!! Good grief! 
This should be an exciting time in your life -- you're getting married! With a family like that, I don't know HOW you could be excited! Moving is the perfect solution. You and your husband-to-be will have a GOOD chance at having a good life together. You won't have that constant black cloud hanging over your head. 
In the meantime, ask them NICELY to PLEASE stop being so negative as it is bothering you and taking away some of your joy. You might tell them also that if they continue to "nag" at you, you'll just have to stop visiting as it is too stressful for you. Be honest with them -- what they're doing is verbal abuse. They should know better than this.  People who love each other don't continually berate each other. They try to LIFT each other's spirits!!
I wish you the very best! I hope everything works out, and that your wedding is the most wonderful day in your life! God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee 
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